Wednesday, May 25, 2016

Am I being the 'crazy girlfriend'?

Okay, so, one of my biggest fears is that someday I'm going the stereotypical psycho girlfriend who freaks out about everything her boyfriend does. That being said, I'm minorly freaking out at the moment.

So, my boyfriend is friends with some of the girls he used to date. In all honesty, I don't have a problem with that. I trust him and him having friends isn't a huge deal to me. But, there's one that he's like *really* close to. Like, she has a nickname for him and only she can call him that and he's told me that she knows more about him than anyone else and he almost proposed to her when they were dating. Being the insecure, paranoid bitch that I am, she terrifies me. It's not that I don't trust my boyfriend, but I'm really insecure and she scares the shit out of me.

Having established that, I read something today. It was an offhand Facebook comment. My boyfriend posted a picture and, I don't know if she's vegan or vegetarian or what, but she was bothered by the picture. That's not the big deal, I understand being bothered by something and wanting to say something. But she was like 'You know that I love you, but I don't like this'. And seeing that she's still so comfortable telling him that she loves him made me go into full-blown panic attack mode. And he started apologizing and saying he'll back off of it and I've been freaking out about this for a few hours now.

So, am I being crazy and paranoid, or am I justified in being uncomfortable with this?

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